Broken Boys?
(caterina.net)
There's something so wounding about growing up a boy, especially a broken-hearted sensitive boy stuck in a tough-guy demographic with no fine words for his finer feelings. There was something about this scene that made my heart clutch because that guy was going to remember that moment when he tried to speak his heart, and was swiftly and utterly silenced. Pretty good recounting of an eavesdropping on a couple of guy's guys conversating about one of the fellows' recent breakup. Women always say they wish men could be more emotive and in touch with their feelings, and here was a muscle-beach guy who just couldn't get the words out, and even if he could, his knucklehead friend wouldn't have been able to grok it anyway. Women say they want guys who can be more sensitive and expressive, but BoyCaught thinks that they mostly want those guys only if the fellow will listen to their stories. As soon as a guy like this found a way to pour his heart out through his mouth, everyone, girl- and guy-friends alike, would start heading toward the hills. So what's the manly solution to all of this? Of course: violence.
Blogged: Wednesday, June 20, 2001

(warning: some of these links may have expired)

1. Blatant benevolence and conspicuous consumption
   (Economist.com)
   Blogged: Sunday, August 12, 2007
2. Why nice guys suck
   (best of craigslist)
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3. Mets broadcaster draws ire with remarks
   (MSNBC.com)
   Blogged: Monday, April 24, 2006
4. Attraction to a Different Kind of Scent
   (New York Times)
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5. X-celling Over Men
   (The New York Times - Op-Ed)
   Blogged: Monday, March 21, 2005
6. Guys Don't Link
   (Burningbird blog)
   Blogged: Thursday, March 10, 2005
7. Boeing CEO Ousted
   (CBS News)
   Blogged: Monday, March 7, 2005
8. Breast for Success
   (Slate)
   Blogged: Thursday, February 12, 2004
9. Sorenstam brilliant from tee to green, but struggles with putter
   (ESPN.com)
   Blogged: Thursday, May 22, 2003
10. The Matrix Makers
    (MSNBC)
    Blogged: Wednesday, January 22, 2003
11. Centrefold models getting more androgynous
    (New Scientist)
    Blogged: Thursday, December 19, 2002
12. Girl talk
    (New Scientist)
    Blogged: Thursday, December 19, 2002
13. Surplus to requirements?
    (Guardian Unlimited | Special reports)
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14. Girls are panting for more
    (Sun Online)
    Blogged: Sunday, September 15, 2002
15. List of demands from a gender liberation conference
    Blogged: Saturday, September 7, 2002
16. E-mail marketers busy cultivating a penile colony
    (SFGate)
    Blogged: Thursday, August 29, 2002
17. Sexy Beasts
    (Metro Times Detroit)
    Blogged: Friday, August 23, 2002
18. Women remember disturbing, emotional images more than men, study shows
    (Stanford News Service)
    Blogged: Thursday, August 22, 2002
19. One Woman's Account of Two Hotel Experiences
    (New York Times)
    Blogged: Wednesday, July 31, 2002
20. Women Talk About Sex More Than Men
    (Off the Beaten Path News)
    Blogged: Monday, April 15, 2002
21. Here come the SaRaHs
    (This is London)
    Blogged: Friday, April 12, 2002
22. Fraud
    (AskMen.com)
    Blogged: Friday, March 15, 2002
23. Guyslie.com
    Blogged: Tuesday, December 25, 2001
24. The Incredible Shrinking Woman Club
    (CANOE)
    Blogged: Tuesday, November 13, 2001
25. Girls: it's your future too
    (Guardian Unlimited)
    Blogged: Monday, October 22, 2001
26. The truth about women
    (A Fire Inside blog)
    Blogged: Monday, August 13, 2001
27. Men May Prefer Beauty Over Youth
    (ABCNEWS.com)
    Blogged: Sunday, July 15, 2001
28. Beautiful Women
    (USS Clueless)
    Blogged: Tuesday, June 26, 2001
29. Rape ads criticized by men of color
    (SF Gate)
    Blogged: Tuesday, June 26, 2001
30. Broken Boys?
    (caterina.net)
    Blogged: Wednesday, June 20, 2001
31. Differences ...
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32. What Women Want
    (Tomato Nation)
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33. E-Mail Style Depends Upon Gender of Recipient
    (Yahoo! News)
    Blogged: Sunday, May 6, 2001
34. Eat It Right
    (Savage Love)
    Blogged: Wednesday, February 7, 2001
35. what women want from men
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